I like soft hands, gym gloves double as riding gloves.
TBH I started wearing gloves after I tore the skin on one hand doing deadlifts - don't want to do that again.
I actually would prefer soft hands too; I hate picking things up, shaking hands or whatever and feeling really rough skin on my hands. Having said that, I couldn't lift in the gym wearing gloves. I much prefer being able to feel the dumbbells/barbells without something in between and it's annoying to have it as an issue.
I did change how I was holding the bars recently however and noticed a big difference to the point where it's just a slight bump now. Maybe this is an issue for some people? Different for girls though, as it's probably even less desirable (and socially acceptable, rightly or wrongly).