Sadly I know I am - but I’m perceived as being “negative”.You are bang on the money.
My 13-year old son has stopped playing footy after playing it since Auskick as a five-year old.
His reason was that he had played footy for long enough and wasn't enjoying it anymore.
The true sadness is kids like your lad retire at a young age, having played a million Micky Mouse games…but never actually playing the real thing so to speak and that is a tragedy.
The AFL or Cricket Australia don’t care..they’ve done enough to have them as consumers for life.
Or so they think