The other day the train was fully loaded, I had a free seat next to me and not one person chose to sit next to me, despite 20-30 people still standing. I couldn't help but laugh about that, It's not like I'm a dero or anything. I dress neat and respectable, I hardly look intimidating.
People only sit near me if there are no spare seats left. I don't care about perception about the way i dress (dressed as though it is summer gear including in winter - but very NEAT), i don't smell.... i can't help being ugly . One thing i can't avoid is being ugly .