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Really good insights again Gromma. Thanks heapsHi Ned, Every kid I know who was drafted interstate, all felt homesick to some degree. This is not just missing your family and friends. The lads each day go home totally exhausted and their daily routine takes them way off normal.
Its a huge physical step up into an ultra competitive environment where many of the established players have done 3 or 4 pre seasons and are hardened athletes. Its intimidating for all of them so its really important senior players take them under their wings. This goes against the grain for some senior players as they may feel threatened by the arruval of talked up kids!
Lads that are in Melbourne can get away from the club by hanging out with their non footy mates but those who go interstate really only have footy mates. Its hard to switch off so they are tired as well as missing home.
When we move out if home for the first time its usually with mates you choose or know well but for some they start living with people they have met just a few times.
Suns themselves are aware they dont do a good job of player welfare. I think thats pretty obvious with the players leaving.
As a family our experience with the Suns was a little of a shock quite frankly. Your son is now in a professional workplace and quite different to what you are used to as a footy club voluteering and being social with parents. Suns certainly didnt feel like a family or close social environment for us.
We were certainly not allowed in the rooms before a game at Metricon but could request to stand in an elevated section in a cage basically! After the game we had to stand behind a rope but could not mingle in the rooms, thats if you were able to get tickets. We often didnt bother as we felt we were imposing or getting in the way.
I understand its not like that at all at other clubs or like you see with “roaming Brian” for example.
AFL players all undergoe a fair bit of media training and are told to steer clear of social media as best they can. The Suns players get nowhere near the attention of clubs in Vic SA and WA but Im not aware of any player on Big Footy. I was made aware of the forum by other parents so I think there might be a few of those here.