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Update:

Things are a little better now. We've gone a few weeks and i'm getting ok with not being with her. I still feel upset when i see her, and when i see her enjoying herself :eek:, but for the most part im ok. Some rebounds have helped also :p

The worst part is though, that we're in the same deb group (not partners DONT WORRY :p) but it's pretty awkward in the progressive dances. Just seeing her in another guys arms is hard, but it makes me feel better knowing that he wasn't her first choice (the inside knowledge when we were going out :p) and that he has no chance with getting with her when anyone can tell he wants her.
 
dude take the advice people have been giving you.......dont show how you are feeling, make sure when she sees you that you are enjoying yourself dont whine about this to people that know her or they will say something.


PS my $0.02: dont do what i did..........dont pick up some fat ugly girl as your rebound and have your ex see you making out with a chick much uglier than her
 
dude take the advice people have been giving you.......dont show how you are feeling, make sure when she sees you that you are enjoying yourself dont whine about this to people that know her or they will say something.


PS my $0.02: dont do what i did..........dont pick up some fat ugly girl as your rebound and have your ex see you making out with a chick much uglier than her
Hahaha no, i never show how bad i'm feelong to her. I don't actually share how i feel with many people at all (maybe 2?) So it's not a problem. I won't let her win :p

You're story's just sad... :p
 

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Bad move. Been there, felt the same way about losing the friendship, tried to make it work. Trust me, losing the friendship in no way compares to how shit it is to continue seeing and being close with somebody you want but can't have - and watching them date other guys. You will not move on, and no girl you meet or date will be able to compete with her. And you're lying to yourself if you don't admit that deep down, you still harbour some shred of hope that you might get together with her one day.

For your own sanity, and for the sake of your own romantic life, the best thing is to end it completely, move on and start afresh. If you don't, at best you torture yourself for years. At worst, you pour yourself into this friendship as a replacement for a proper relationship - and then when she gets a boyfriend who's not comfortable with your relationship she drifts away from you.
DeadlyAkkurat made a sensational post in BACCS' epic thread about being friendzoned. You should read it.

i couldnt agree more..ended with the ex few months ago and she asked me that we still remain friends..i said yes and we had few convos after that...but it just felt weird seeing her and being around with her so just had to give her the cold shoulder and ignore her for her and mine sake...
 
Still waiting for the theory to work... :( Feeling pretty crappy tonight
Just read this whole thread and learned about your troubles. You say your still waiting, but have you followed any of the other advice? What I am referring to is have you tried to achieve any independence. Do you have a job? Drivers Licence or a car? Can you improve on your schooling or something, focus on improving yourself. Heck even take up a hobby or volunteer and make good use of your time instead of sitting around and waiting.

Put it this way, if you don't get the girl back, you'll know you're definitely a better person for it. Remember that you have (some) power to do what you want in your own life.
 
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I'm getting over someone i really liked (possibly loved) and he lives in my apartment building. It's been 2 weeks but i haven't bumped into him.

I find channeling your emotions towards 'hate' for them works well as it makes you not want to see them which helps you focus on other things. I can honestly say, that apart from the occasional spontaneous song professing my hate towards him, i rarely give him a second thought and also doing some great things with my life.

I never knew you cared nicky

We can still make it work :(
 
I'm getting over someone i really liked (possibly loved) and he lives in my apartment building. It's been 2 weeks but i haven't bumped into him.

I find channeling your emotions towards 'hate' for them works well as it makes you not want to see them which helps you focus on other things. I can honestly say, that apart from the occasional spontaneous song professing my hate towards him, i rarely give him a second thought and also doing some great things with my life.

Yeah good one, channel your hurt into anger and become a bitter and twisted person.

I predict you'll die alone with your cats.
 
Anyway heres my tale of recent woe:



I have recently broken up with my girlfriend of four years and i'm not too proud to admit that it hurts a lot.

Basically after sharing my life with someone for so long it is strange and a shock to to know that someone that was always there for you is no longer in your life. To compound the matter the circumstances in which we broke up were not pleasent, she cheated on me and not just a nightclub pash and dash, she went home with the guy. Not only that we also lived together and basically shared everything, it is a horrible feeling to know that you've been betrayed by not only your girlfriend but also someone i considered my best friend.

I have spoken to close friends about this which was hard as they had the utmost respect for her and considered her now as one of their good friends and they had some sound advice but nothing they can say really makes everything better
 

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Yeah that sort of thing will break you, but eventually it hardens you a bit too. Very difficult not to become guarded and keep your barriers up with someone new.

It's really just about time. I remember once after a breakup writing a bit of a blog, that only selected people could see. Just basically recounted how I felt that day. I noticed a definite trend in line with the recognised grieving process. Anger, denial, bargaining blah blah. If you steer clear, try to put one foot in front of the other each day and continue with other aspects of your life as separate events, the acceptance part will eventually come. Don't get all emotional at work and fail to do your job as I did with the one relationship I humiliated myself over.
 
Had this girl I liked a fair bit, she always mnetioned how she had two ex boyfriends one of which had r*ped her, the other would beat her up, we went out to clubs and parties and she got hallowed at and guys would call out to her while we would be driving to the casino and anyways it started doing my head in.

It got to the point that I got a little stressed and depressed, so in the end I was at the footy second semi final saints and the swans of 2004 finals series, i was getting bombarded with text messaages from her, it was how her exes both had been wanting her back.

She wanted me to go down to their addresses and sort them out, didnt help both were muslims with one had 4 brothers and the other 6 living with them.

So I did the only thing I could, dont annoy me when Im at the footy for f...s sake

So i ended it through text message

she still hates me

as a matter of fact she got me at highpoint shopping centre with her brother, he jumped me from behind and decked me with a good king hit, she was watching and taunting me as i on bended knee trying to cover up, she was yelling at her brother to knock me out cold so she could stand on my head with her heels.

I ended up dazed and struggled like hell to stay off the ground, in the end she heeled my head and i was in pain for days afterwards

she had the last laugh and i got rid of a whacked up bitch.
 
Had this girl I liked a fair bit, she always mnetioned how she had two ex boyfriends one of which had r*ped her, the other would beat her up, we went out to clubs and parties and she got hallowed at and guys would call out to her while we would be driving to the casino and anyways it started doing my head in.

It got to the point that I got a little stressed and depressed, so in the end I was at the footy second semi final saints and the swans of 2004 finals series, i was getting bombarded with text messaages from her, it was how her exes both had been wanting her back.

She wanted me to go down to their addresses and sort them out, didnt help both were muslims with one had 4 brothers and the other 6 living with them.

So I did the only thing I could, dont annoy me when Im at the footy for f...s sake

So i ended it through text message

she still hates me

as a matter of fact she got me at highpoint shopping centre with her brother, he jumped me from behind and decked me with a good king hit, she was watching and taunting me as i on bended knee trying to cover up, she was yelling at her brother to knock me out cold so she could stand on my head with her heels.

I ended up dazed and struggled like hell to stay off the ground, in the end she heeled my head and i was in pain for days afterwards

she had the last laugh and i got rid of a whacked up bitch.
That's why you don't go out with crazy bogans :thumbsu:
 
Had this girl I liked a fair bit, she always mnetioned how she had two ex boyfriends one of which had r*ped her, the other would beat her up, we went out to clubs and parties and she got hallowed at and guys would call out to her while we would be driving to the casino and anyways it started doing my head in.

It got to the point that I got a little stressed and depressed, so in the end I was at the footy second semi final saints and the swans of 2004 finals series, i was getting bombarded with text messaages from her, it was how her exes both had been wanting her back.

She wanted me to go down to their addresses and sort them out, didnt help both were muslims with one had 4 brothers and the other 6 living with them.

So I did the only thing I could, dont annoy me when Im at the footy for f...s sake

So i ended it through text message

she still hates me

as a matter of fact she got me at highpoint shopping centre with her brother, he jumped me from behind and decked me with a good king hit, she was watching and taunting me as i on bended knee trying to cover up, she was yelling at her brother to knock me out cold so she could stand on my head with her heels.

I ended up dazed and struggled like hell to stay off the ground, in the end she heeled my head and i was in pain for days afterwards

she had the last laugh and i got rid of a whacked up bitch.

Jesus, she sounds like a psycho. You should feel glad you avoided that one.
 
Had this girl I liked a fair bit, she always mnetioned how she had two ex boyfriends one of which had r*ped her, the other would beat her up, we went out to clubs and parties and she got hallowed at and guys would call out to her while we would be driving to the casino and anyways it started doing my head in.

It got to the point that I got a little stressed and depressed, so in the end I was at the footy second semi final saints and the swans of 2004 finals series, i was getting bombarded with text messaages from her, it was how her exes both had been wanting her back.

She wanted me to go down to their addresses and sort them out, didnt help both were muslims with one had 4 brothers and the other 6 living with them.

So I did the only thing I could, dont annoy me when Im at the footy for f...s sake

So i ended it through text message

she still hates me

as a matter of fact she got me at highpoint shopping centre with her brother, he jumped me from behind and decked me with a good king hit, she was watching and taunting me as i on bended knee trying to cover up, she was yelling at her brother to knock me out cold so she could stand on my head with her heels.

I ended up dazed and struggled like hell to stay off the ground, in the end she heeled my head and i was in pain for days afterwards

she had the last laugh and i got rid of a whacked up bitch.

Classic attention seeker, I think.

All anger comes from some sort of hurt. I will get over this guy and more than likely end up being great friends with him. This current phase is purely a means to an ends.

I kind of agree with you about the hate thing. I broke up with my ex and I still had some feeling there but I also knew that it was best not to see him because that would just confuse my feelings and I didn't want to give him any false hope. So I kind of just started thinking about things that annoyed me about him.. I'm still not sure if I forced this or it came naturally. Either way, we are now really good friends (it took a while though). We go out together and be each others "wing man" Haha. I even helped him find his latest girlfriend :thumbsu:
 

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