Yeah, that exactly what I am suggesting. It's the place of a club welfare officer to fully explore the issues with a player and help him or her make the best decisions being fully aware of all the issues and consequences. Not for the coach to make assumptions and tell them to cut off their spouse/parent/siblings/cousins.
And as suspected you've got no direct experience of issues with indigenous communities requiring the intervention of white saviours, and are just talking out your arse based on word of mouth and a trip to Midland.
Nah, grew up in Armadale mate.
Not the Armadale your college boy Greens Party mates grew up in either.
Trot along.