I think this is a product of today's generation - no one knows how to accept failure. Their parents always shielded them as kids, they received participation ribbons, teachers have to sugar coat any criticism in reports and we even have no scoring in underage footy and cricket now days. People always want to blame others if they lose. Maybe instead of finding more convoluted ways to may things 'fairer' people people just need to accept things for the way they are, toughen the truck up and move on....
Great post! This world of inclusion and everyone is the same and equal and kumbaya around the campfire is an unworkable byproduct.