PatrickBateman
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To get it all (love) you have to risk it all (heartbreak). Love, true love is worth it
You forgot to add money / security along with 'heartbreak'.
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To get it all (love) you have to risk it all (heartbreak). Love, true love is worth it
If you truly believe that then you'll never be able to give it all to get itYou forgot to add money / security along with 'heartbreak'.
What's money/security got to do with love?You forgot to add money / security along with 'heartbreak'.
Not to worry. That new one crashed before it got off the ground.To get it all (love) you have to risk it all (heartbreak). Love, true love is worth it
If you truly believe that then you'll never be able to give it all to get it
What's money/security got to do with love?
That's Hollywood and Hallmark cards talking. I've had enough relationships, and have observed enough of other people's to know how it works. Yes, many relationships work, most don't. Fact. Add all the unhappy marriages / relationships who don't separate (heaps) to the 40% or so divorce rate, the odds are hard against you.
"Australia’s divorce rate looks set to skyrocket as coronavirus restrictions and ongoing job losses push struggling relationships over the edge.
Google searches for the term ‘divorce’ surged to their highest point in 12 months at the end of June, surpassing the usual spike after Christmas and new year."
NoCookies | The Australian
www.theaustralian.com.au
'Love' doesn't save all the relationship breakdown during economic downturn, which we're yet to feel the brunt of. Why? It's not about love.
Clearly you don't know too much about women...
Women are hypergamous, it's biology.
Love is a word with no meaning. In a relationship sense, people often just use it to get what they want, men and women.
That's a generalisation.Women "love" your resources and what you can offer them. They don't love you the person. Once you stop giving them the resources or they realise you're not going to they're swinging over to the next bloke. That is reality today.
You've had plenty of relationships but never felt love? Even if not for a romantic partner, for a child, parents etc? Love has plenty of meaning. It isn't everything as you've mentioned, and other factors can end a marriage even if there is plenty of love. Being head over heals for each other constantly for 50-60 years doesn't happen. It ebbs and flows with a lot of work in between.
You are mostly likely correct in that most don't 'work out'. Depends that that means though. You could have a few very happy relationships throughout your life. Just because they didn't end in dying of old age together doesn't mean it's failed.
She could. But she doesn't have to contend with the lopsided court system. Plus most of them in that position are so heavily in debt and at the end of child bearing age.Fair enough. A woman could say the same I guess. Rare these days that the male owns everything and has all the money. Both sides are usually vested.
That's the most cynical point of view I've read for quite a while. Luckily, it's not been true in my experience.Women "love" your resources and what you can offer them. They don't love you the person. Once you stop giving them the resources or they realise you're not going to they're swinging over to the next bloke. That is reality today.
It hasn't happened to me either because i was careful, but ive seen it happen to friends and family.That's the most cynical point of view I've read for quite a while. Luckily, it's not been true in my experience.
I have no doubt that people like that exist, but it doesn't mean that All Women are like that. It's not a tag I'd apply to my Mum or my sister, it's not one I'd apply to my exes, it's not one I'd apply to my female friends, or, luckily, my partner.It hasn't happened to me either because i was careful, but ive seen it happen to friends and family.
Hopefully it never happens to you.
just red pill it
A red pill is a person who is purported to have woken up to the fact that society discriminates against men, not women; to red pill is to do the same. The term is a reference to the film The Matrix (1999)[5][114] in which taking the blue pill means remaining the part of the sheeple and thinking nothing is wrong.[115] The term is used among the more militantly misogynistic and conspiracy theorist manosphere groups.
The concept of "red pilling" is also applied in other contexts where there is believed to be some important "truth" (i.e., a conspiracy theory) that the sheeple are oblivious to (e.g. "red pill me on 9/11"). It has been co-opted by flat Earthers, particularly on Daily Plane.[116]
This term is also frequently used by proponents of "race realism", who coincidentally wish for a more traditional way of life. In most cases, this requires thinking that feminism and multiculturalism is the new status quo, and it's the traditional values that are subversive. That way, you can act like a bigot and still feel like you're speaking truth to power.
The earliest known usage of "red pill" for "right-wing enlightenment" is by neoreactionary "Mencius Moldbug" (Curtis Yarvin) in April 2007.[117] The first use found in relation to pickup artistry was in September 2007;[118] it gained currency with pickup artists in 2009 and 2010.
It is particularly hilarious that organised misogynists and reactionaries have wholeheartedly embraced a term from a movie, written and directed by two transgender women, in which a African American male and a strong, white female convince a 'white' male (played by multi-ethnic Keanu Reeves) to fight subjugation.
lol, ok, it musnt exist then.I have no doubt that people like that exist, but it doesn't mean that All Women are like that. It's not a tag I'd apply to my Mum or my sister, it's not one I'd apply to my exes, it's not one I'd apply to my female friends, or, luckily, my partner.
Seeing my relationship of 12 years go down the shitta... we dont talk... haven't slept in the same room for over 12 months... we started off as great friends... now their is nothing...
Well my coffee date with south american tinder chick was no good. I dont know how she did it, what filters she used and angles for photos, but reality was not as portrayed in photos.
Women "love" your resources and what you can offer them. They don't love you the person. Once you stop giving them the resources or they realise you're not going to they're swinging over to the next bloke. That is reality today.
Jesus christ, I'd hate to see your opinions on other aspects of life, what a sad perspective to have.
Same.I have no doubt that people like that exist, but it doesn't mean that All Women are like that. It's not a tag I'd apply to my Mum or my sister, it's not one I'd apply to my exes, it's not one I'd apply to my female friends, or, luckily, my partner.