What's the experience with the ol' L word? I've been with this girl since last August ish and keen to bust it out shortly
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Girls love it, 6 months+ seems like a long enough time.
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Make sure you don't pick the wrong time of the month to say it.
If you can avoid that, make sure your gear is ready for action.
If you can avoid that, make sure your gear is ready for action.
Igloo
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Wise advice^
Have it all lined up for the six month celebrations. gonna do variations of all of our early dates...pick her up from where i used to when we first started going out, take her to where we met, go to torquay (place of our third?? date), travel by the place we stopped by on our forth? date and swing by a bottle o that we joked about going to (and has for some reason become a bit of a running joke) grab a bottle of champagne?, go to dinner and the place we first ate at, go home and turn on the realllly boring movie we watched on our first date which will consequently turn into fireworks. I think i'll launch into the l word sometime around torquay, but possibly later?
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that's a hell of a lot of thought you put into that..
Igloo
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Yeah, sounds very planned. Maybe even a little too planned. Should just go along, certainly do everything you have planned to do, but don't pick a time to say it, just say it when it feels appropriate. You don't want to make it sound rehearsed.
But as the prosecutor alluded to, make sure the time of month is correct, and make sure you are in or close to a private place
But as the prosecutor alluded to, make sure the time of month is correct, and make sure you are in or close to a private place
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she'll have done a runner by the third place, she'll think you're proposing.
this also leaves you with massive work to do in terms of anniversaries etc if you're going to this much trouble to tell her that you love her after 6 months together.
if she isn't put off by how intense this is, she'll be expecting a lot on every occasion which sucks for you obviously.
have you been watching too many romantic comedies?
100% agree with this, the zoo is a massively underated date location.
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The Zoo rocks. It's not overly loud, lots of things to talk about so there's no awkward silences. So much to take in, very visual. Highly underrated, very unique too so she'll love you even more for it. Beats dinner etc.
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Whoah! Been with my wife for five years and I'd never even consider going to those lengths. Can't you just go out to dinner and choose a movie to watch at the Video Shop? And after six months, I honestly can't believe you haven't told her you love her yet......isn't it just something you say to make the missus happy?
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ThePuppetMaster
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Alright have a question.
Am going to Falls with a group of friends and then Buller after to meet up with another group of mates.
This girl I'm keen on (get along really well, etc) is doing likewise and we've agreed to road trip to Buller... anyway I'm staying at my lodge instead of with the other group and this girl states that she will 'definitely do whatever I do' (irt housing arrangments, after I said i'd stay at mine) to one of the girls we're meeting there and similar things to me but not as definite.
Thoughts on chances?
Also, I asked her a few hours ago if she wanted to share a room or have seperate rooms... No response.
Was that a mistake? Should I have just made the assumption she'd be happy sharing a room considering she wanted to stay with me rather than ten of her friends??
Or am I just impatient?
Am going to Falls with a group of friends and then Buller after to meet up with another group of mates.
This girl I'm keen on (get along really well, etc) is doing likewise and we've agreed to road trip to Buller... anyway I'm staying at my lodge instead of with the other group and this girl states that she will 'definitely do whatever I do' (irt housing arrangments, after I said i'd stay at mine) to one of the girls we're meeting there and similar things to me but not as definite.
Thoughts on chances?
Also, I asked her a few hours ago if she wanted to share a room or have seperate rooms... No response.
Was that a mistake? Should I have just made the assumption she'd be happy sharing a room considering she wanted to stay with me rather than ten of her friends??
Or am I just impatient?
Since we are in the General Discussion I will not dwindle on the fact that you support Melbourne and are going up to the snow
I think you're in with a big chance as she wants to do whatever you're doing(Say youll be covering yourself in whipped cream whilst wearing nothing underneath
) . Probably a bad idea to ask about the rooms but then I guess you are playing it safe. You don't want to find out she doesnt want action and then be stuck in the same room with her. If she doesn't respond just get one room and cross your fingers all works out well.She is definately interested. Good Luck
By asking her to choose you've put her in an awkward spot - now she has to choose between two options that might make her seem either frigid or ****ty. "Share a room" is also a bit ambiguous, if you have chemistry.
Personally I would have made the decision and asked her to let you know if she wanted to do something different. e.g. "I was planning on booking a twin room unless you wanted a room to yourself". Wouldn't go a double room if you haven't hooked up with her yet. Bit presumptuous.
Personally I would have made the decision and asked her to let you know if she wanted to do something different. e.g. "I was planning on booking a twin room unless you wanted a room to yourself". Wouldn't go a double room if you haven't hooked up with her yet. Bit presumptuous.
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Just to clarify something, there are two beds in the room!
Unfortunately I forgot to put that in my text ...
I'll just send a humorous text to add it in.
Unfortunately I forgot to put that in my text ...
I'll just send a humorous text to add it in.
ThePuppetMaster
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All good, she responded within five minutes of clarification saying that "we'll share a room ".
Thanks for the thoughts lads; Caeser, I reckon you were spot on.
".Thanks for the thoughts lads; Caeser, I reckon you were spot on.
Igloo
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So is the room just you two? I don't think separate beds shall be used.
ThePuppetMaster
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Yeah, just the two of us.
Only two nights though, and odds are we'll be drinking to all hours at our mates place.. So we'll wait and see.
Only two nights though, and odds are we'll be drinking to all hours at our mates place.. So we'll wait and see.
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