Have you ever met guys like this before? Or are you one yourself? I call them 'Boyfriend Men'. I reckon there are some blokes out there who seem to need to be in a relationship.
Whether it be because they don't want to feel all alone in the world, or because they can't stand going without sex for weeks at a time, or because of something else altogether, I'm not sure, but I've met a few blokes who seem to have spent all of their adult lives in relationships, one after the other, with only months (sometimes less ) in between each one.
I'm always wary of women who seem to go from one relationship to another, largely because it strikes me as a sign of insecurity, and also because you'd have to question how much of her interest in being with you is down to you, and how much is down to her wanting to be with someone.
I reckon that might be the case with these Boyfriend Men, too. They need to be with someone. As somebody who has spent significant time both in a relationship and single, I can confidently say that I have developed as a person (for better or for worse) infinitely more as a single than I did as one half of a relationship.
Relationships are great and I'm sure I will be in one again at some point in the future, but I wonder if these Boyfriend Men are missing out on something.
Do you reckon Boyfriend Men exist and if so, why do you think they are the way they are, and do you believe they are missing out on the opportunities for personal growth that singledom provides?
Whether it be because they don't want to feel all alone in the world, or because they can't stand going without sex for weeks at a time, or because of something else altogether, I'm not sure, but I've met a few blokes who seem to have spent all of their adult lives in relationships, one after the other, with only months (sometimes less ) in between each one.
I'm always wary of women who seem to go from one relationship to another, largely because it strikes me as a sign of insecurity, and also because you'd have to question how much of her interest in being with you is down to you, and how much is down to her wanting to be with someone.
I reckon that might be the case with these Boyfriend Men, too. They need to be with someone. As somebody who has spent significant time both in a relationship and single, I can confidently say that I have developed as a person (for better or for worse) infinitely more as a single than I did as one half of a relationship.
Relationships are great and I'm sure I will be in one again at some point in the future, but I wonder if these Boyfriend Men are missing out on something.
Do you reckon Boyfriend Men exist and if so, why do you think they are the way they are, and do you believe they are missing out on the opportunities for personal growth that singledom provides?