I think part of this is that for the average guy these days, they aren't going to have abs, to go with a (somewhat more) appealing, no shirt shot to show off how good they look. So many think the 'level playing field' is a dick pic. So it's a combination of a fundamental failure to realise guys are much (much much) more visual (on average) than women and a pathetic attempt to hide flaws elsewhere. So a double failure.I’ve never understood the dick pic thing. Do guys really think this turns women on? It doesn’t .