Society/Culture Feminism - Pt III

[CM86]

How am I the Problem? I am not the reason why the dating scene has turned to Hell in the last 10-20 years.

Saying that I am not an Anti feminist or a Misoginist or a Lady hater. This is Australia. As a western society we all have basic human rights regardless of out backgrounds.

I have no issues with Women or Ladies or females forging their career path.

If a lady wants to do an Apprenticeship, become a tradesman... er I mean a Tradie or Tradesperson, then I have no issues with it.

If a lady wants to go to university for 3 or 4 or 5 years to have a medical career as a registered Nurse or surgeon or doctor or a dermatologist (Skin doctor or Skin specialist), Then i have no issues with that.


I have seen this youtube clips many times. So why are guys hesistant to approaching girls? You say I am spreading misinformation or hate? Please elaborate?




I used to approach random girls in Public in my 20s. I am 36 now, I wont approach them. And... you are saying I am the problem? Hmmmm. ok.

Nah, the fact that you're pretending there is a problem where one doesn't actually exist.
And you actively avoid engaging with posts that explain that to you.

That's what makes it clear that you're the problem in search of an issue.
Rather than a response to an actual issue.

 

[Freomaniac]

Nah, the fact that you're pretending there is a problem where one doesn't actually exist.
And you actively avoid engaging with posts that explain that to you.

That's what makes it clear that you're the problem in search of an issue.
Rather than a response to an actual issue.

So..... you think I am wrong or right?

So its not a problem where lots of men and ladies are not only single but childless?

Whats the average amount of kids per couple? 1.8?

Only reason why the Australian population increases is due to immagration. You shut off migrants coming to australia for the next 10 years, the Australian population decreases.

Overseas Migration, 2022-23 financial year

Statistics on Australia's international migration, by state and territory, country of birth, visa, age and sex.

www.abs.gov.au

in 2022-23, migrant arrivals increased to 737,000, up from 427,000 the year before.

 

[CM86]

So..... you think I am wrong or right?

So its not a problem where lots of men and ladies are not only single but childless?

Whats the average amount of kids per couple? 1.8?

Only reason why the Australian population increases is due to immagration. You shut off migrants coming to australia for the next 10 years, the Australian population decreases.

Overseas Migration, 2022-23 financial year

Statistics on Australia's international migration, by state and territory, country of birth, visa, age and sex.

www.abs.gov.au

in 2022-23, migrant arrivals increased to 737,000, up from 427,000 the year before.

I clearly think you're wrong.
And you obviously know you are as well.

That's why you can never engage or discuss the statements you make. And you always need to ignore the responses given to you, and move on to other points that are tangential to your initial statement that you know is untrue.

 

[Freomaniac]

I clearly think you're wrong.
And you obviously know you are as well.

That's why you can never engage or discuss the statements you make. And you always need to ignore the responses given to you, and move on to other points that are tangential to your initial statement that you know is untrue.

ok fair enough.....

Agree to disagree.

 

[evolved2]

So..... you think I am wrong or right?

So its not a problem where lots of men and ladies are not only single but childless?

Whats the average amount of kids per couple? 1.8?

Only reason why the Australian population increases is due to immagration. You shut off migrants coming to australia for the next 10 years, the Australian population decreases.

Overseas Migration, 2022-23 financial year

Statistics on Australia's international migration, by state and territory, country of birth, visa, age and sex.

www.abs.gov.au

in 2022-23, migrant arrivals increased to 737,000, up from 427,000 the year before.

Many people, both men and women, no longer see it as part of their duty to have kids. The expense of housing along with other costs of living have also priced many people out.

What changed over the past 6-10 years that stopped you from approaching women at a bar? Have you personally had bad experiences?

 

[the_interloper]

Many people, both men and women, no longer see it as part of their duty to have kids. The expense of housing along with other costs of living have also priced many people out.

What changed over the past 6-10 years that stopped you from approaching women at a bar? Have you personally had bad experiences?

I'm going to guess one reason is watching Youtube videos like the one he posted, there's a lot of unhealthy shit on Youtube (and the internet in general) that both men and women consume that contribute to the divide of the sexes IMO.

 

[faible]

So why are guys hesistant to approaching girls?

Because unless you're an overconfident d-bag it's a fairy unpleasant experience going up to a total stranger not knowing if they're interested or not.

Compare that with swiping on an app while you're sitting on the toilet.

Gee I wonder why young people don't opt for the first one.

 

[CM86]

ok fair enough.....

Agree to disagree.

Sorry for my personal attacks on you. It wasn't fair or justified.

 

[Freomaniac]

The '666' rule isn't your problem.

Your problem is use of the word 'ladies'. It's not quaint; it's strange.

Are you running a school for 19th century etiquette, my dear fellow?

well you are not gonna call random adult girls in the street Whores or Sluts are you? lol

 

[Freomaniac]

Many people, both men and women, no longer see it as part of their duty to have kids. The expense of housing along with other costs of living have also priced many people out.

What changed over the past 6-10 years that stopped you from approaching women at a bar? Have you personally had bad experiences?

Housing crisis has played a part in this.... I am already 36. I dont own a house either. But its sad that some couples are not willing to have kids due to the financial strain it brings to a family raising a child.

What changed over the past 5-10 years that stopped me from Approaching ladies at a bar? I think the amount of times being rejected just dented my confidence.

I have a few personal bad experiences. I wont go into exact details. Just made me feel like I was worthless at the end of the night.

 

[cartwright]

well you are not gonna call random adult girls in the street Whores or Sluts are you? lol

Just say “women”.

Problem solved.

 

[Gethelred]

... I mean, alternatively, you could just ask them their names?

 

[the_interloper]

... I mean, alternatively, you could just ask them their names?

The only pick up line that ever worked for me. It’s not really a line per se, but if you get a smile and their name and “what’s yours?” you’re half a chance. If not well just move on, plenty of fish in the sea etc

 

[faible]

... I mean, alternatively, you could just ask them their names?

This seems too simple, better to use a term of endearment like sweetie.

'oi sweetie' never fails to impress.

 

[Gough]

This seems too simple, better to use a term of endearment like sweetie.

'oi sweetie' never fails to impress.

Fetch your coat luv, you've pulled.

 

[faible]

Fetch your coat luv, you've pulled.

Gough is a noted ladies man, follow this advice.

 

[Gralin]

well you are not gonna call random adult girls in the street Whores or Sluts are you? lol

I think you've just explained the problem you have with meeting women.

It's not them though, it's definitely you.

 

[JB1975]

well you are not gonna call random adult girls in the street Whores or Sluts are you? lol

Indeed. Actually, I'm not sure I'm going to call at 'random adult girls in the street' at all.

I think that things must work differently over there in WA. In Melbourne, courtship (to use a term you'd approve of) generally occurs in more intimate settings, which limits the need for collective nouns.

 

[the_interloper]

Indeed. Actually, I'm not sure I'm going to call at 'random adult girls in the street' at all.

I think that things must work differently over there in WA. In Melbourne, courtship (to use a term you'd approve of) generally occurs in more intimate settings, which limits the need for collective nouns.

Weirdo!

 

[Carringbush2010]

Because unless you're an overconfident d-bag it's a fairy unpleasant experience going up to a total stranger not knowing if they're interested or not.

Compare that with swiping on an app while you're sitting on the toilet.

Gee I wonder why young people don't opt for the first one.

Off topic, but there's merit in the why people are now using apps instead of the original social method.

It's easier and less stressful.

 

[Carringbush2010]

Housing crisis has played a part in this.... I am already 36. I dont own a house either. But its sad that some couples are not willing to have kids due to the financial strain it brings to a family raising a child.

What changed over the past 5-10 years that stopped me from Approaching ladies at a bar? I think the amount of times being rejected just dented my confidence.

I have a few personal bad experiences. I wont go into exact details. Just made me feel like I was worthless at the end of the night.

Probably coz you went in with the intent of 'scoring' instead of just striking up a conversation with a genuine approach.

Women recognize this as 'creepy', they instinctually know what your intent is.

Would I be correct in my assumption?

 

[evolved2]

Housing crisis has played a part in this.... I am already 36. I dont own a house either. But its sad that some couples are not willing to have kids due to the financial strain it brings to a family raising a child.

What changed over the past 5-10 years that stopped me from Approaching ladies at a bar? I think the amount of times being rejected just dented my confidence.

I have a few personal bad experiences. I wont go into exact details. Just made me feel like I was worthless at the end of the night.

I can understand that. I've heard dating apps can be tough too.

You may have better luck getting to know women in more friendly social settings before asking them on a date. Find a gym, church, sport, etc where you have common interests with women and just be normal and friendly. Gyms in particular are a great way to meet all sorts of people; much better than bars.

One other piece of advice. Shelve the term 'ladies'. A lot of women hate that term. As cartwright posted earlier, calling them women is far better.

 

[Freomaniac]

Probably coz you went in with the intent of 'scoring' instead of just striking up a conversation with a genuine approach.

Women recognize this as 'creepy', they instinctually know what your intent is.

Would I be correct in my assumption?

You are possibly correct....

You can ask how many sexual Partners or one night stands I have had. You can take one guess and you would probably be correct.

I will give you a clue.... Its the same number that the dockers have won flags.

 

[Freomaniac]

Because unless you're an overconfident d-bag it's a fairy unpleasant experience going up to a total stranger not knowing if they're interested or not.

Compare that with swiping on an app while you're sitting on the toilet.

Gee I wonder why young people don't opt for the first one.

And you have a Point...

Go on Tinder. girls jus need to swipe at the guys that they dont like or dont have interests in.

 

[Freomaniac]

Off topic, but there's merit in the why people are now using apps instead of the original social method.

It's easier and less stressful.

I can understand why people are using Dating apps. If a bloke sends a random single girl a message, worst case scenario they get ignored and rejected. Its not as bad as being ignored and reject out in public.