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Family & Relationships tips on getting a girlfriend
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Show women this thread. Shows you are a proactive go-getter.
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I'd get off this thread for a start. Otherwise it is a male burden to carry. No one really knows what goes on inside a woman's head.
If you really are 18 and indeed a dude go out and live your life. Do things you enjoy and are naturally drawn to. If you have a burning desire to do something do it, work toward it and don't wait around. This will build a level of confidence and resilience.
Otherwise yeah lower the standards as for whatever reason the surest fire way to get women interested in you is have another woman interested.
If you really are 18 and indeed a dude go out and live your life. Do things you enjoy and are naturally drawn to. If you have a burning desire to do something do it, work toward it and don't wait around. This will build a level of confidence and resilience.
Otherwise yeah lower the standards as for whatever reason the surest fire way to get women interested in you is have another woman interested.
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Ahhh, well I kinda like guys older than me. They are "allegedly" more mature. And i dunno if I can relate to 18 year olds any more. Though I'm sure there is someone for him.
Plus I have the hotted up V8 Ute and the 6 figure income so I'm really confused about the guys who are saying that's what I want in a guy as a female.
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I am now lol. Let me put my therapist hat on. P.s. ask your doctor if I am right for you.
My advice for O.P. is don't go looking for a girlfriend but enjoy your life, have fun and be yourself.
Woman, and people in general, are attracted to people who are having fun and enjoying life so eventually you'll find a chick who will want to enjoy life with you.
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Bolded is probably the worst advice you could give anyone
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I've had a lot more interest from guys being who I am instead of being who I think I should be. As soon as I stopped trying to be everything I am not I suddenly had a lot of male attention.
When you be yourself you don't give a shit about what other people think.
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Am there right now as I know no other way. Rarely ends well.
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Why not, if people care so much about you and what you do, they aren't even worth having in your life.
If people don't like me or have a problem with me because I'm not pretending to be someone then that's their problem not mine.
I've given up on people pleasing and I'm looking after number 1. The only persons happiness that matters to me is mine, because I have to live with me
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And good for you really. Hold firm..................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................just don't try going for a job or any sensitive situation.
Sometimes you have to adapt. But if you don't fair play to you.
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I have a 6 figure job working in emergency services... I'm not sure what you mean. dead bodies don't care when you're scrapping them off the road.
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1. Attitude - don't care about not having a gf, just don't give a #*&%.
2. Money - make lots of it.
3. Bulk up - women like size.
4. Have an edge - musician, photographer, some artistic talent.
5. Be adept - take lessons in social skills or go on speed dating.
6. Get out there - take dance lessons or take up activities where you are surrounded by girls.
7. Improve yourself - make a better you and you will be more confident. Confidence is key.
8. Don't be desperate - you will come across as creepy.
9. Be playful - chicks dig funny guys, flirting is fun.
10. Ask Billy Ray - he knows all.
2. Money - make lots of it.
3. Bulk up - women like size.
4. Have an edge - musician, photographer, some artistic talent.
5. Be adept - take lessons in social skills or go on speed dating.
6. Get out there - take dance lessons or take up activities where you are surrounded by girls.
7. Improve yourself - make a better you and you will be more confident. Confidence is key.
8. Don't be desperate - you will come across as creepy.
9. Be playful - chicks dig funny guys, flirting is fun.
10. Ask Billy Ray - he knows all.
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Here's a great hair-style you might like to try, in helping you to attract the ladies O/P.....It'll help you stand-out from the crowd.
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So if I'm exhausted, stressed and can't be ****ed going to work let alone putting in another Bradman like performance and want to just sleep till midday I should just do that?
If I want to speak out about certain things I should just do it rather than hold my tongue and keep my job?
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Go down the pub. Drink with 1-4 mates. Duck out for darts with bored side-eye. When you rarely chip in for chat, everyone else pisses themselves. Don't cuddle girls your just friends with, looks a bit gay and desperate. Have a distant stare. Wear slacks and a Kramer shirt and be gaunt and 6'2. Das it baby.
Have you tried doing the opposite of what you think you should do?
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Don't try too hard.
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Lots of immature guys in here if they think money matters.
Either that or they're with the wrong woman
Either that or they're with the wrong woman
I generally walk up to women and tell them not to mess with me I have tiger blood and it generally works well
Here's a great hair-style you might like to try, in helping you to attract the ladies O/P.....It'll help you stand-out from the crowd.
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Points 2-10 seem to contradict point 1 and would indicate that the person gives a lot of ****s
Yes this. The catch is, if you are not happy with who you are in the first place them you need to change that, by doing things that make you respect yourself a lot more. It's not about arrogance, just self respect.
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