Chief said:Here's the thing girls: You're just girls. You're not expected to know what you want and you're proving that assumption quite nicely.
But seriously you both sound like you don't think you deserve to have someone as a good companion. You reject normal blokes and go for ones who will **** you around. I don't think it is the guys who are dumb. You just have freaky issues and think anyone who is OK with that is a loser.
Shove your psycho babble chief. I was being tongue in cheek with my conumdrum. I don't like a$$hole guys but i don't like sucky guys either. I have a high expectation of love and won't settle for anything less.