Past #26: Tarryn Thomas [Part III] - 18 week suspension confirmed; ineligible to play in '24 season; NMFC has officially sacked Tarryn.

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Tarryn Thomas harassed ex while in men’s behaviour course​


Rebekah Cavanagh

4–5 minutes



Tarryn Thomas called his ex-girlfriend to breathe heavily down the line in a series of calls made while the former Kangaroos rising star was midway through a men’s behaviour course.
Disgraced former North Melbourne midfielder Tarryn Thomas was in the middle of a men’s behaviour program when he harassed his ex-girlfriend with a series of menacing calls.
Dressed in an all-black ensemble featuring a Louis Vuitton belt, the 24-year-old faced a number of charges at Broadmeadows Magistrates’ Court on Thursday, where he avoided a conviction after pleading guilty to domestic violence offences.
The court heard Thomas’ ex-girlfriend ended their year-long relationship in January.
But his lawyer, Sally Vardy, said after seeing her at a music festival in late-March it “triggered in him a feeling of loneliness”.
The once promising midfielder proceeded to call her 34 times between April 5 and 29, with his victim only answering six of those calls.
She told police he would breathe heavily down the line, with no verbal threats made.
The court heard Thomas still hopes to make a return to the footy field. Picture: David Geraghty

The court heard Thomas still hopes to make a return to the footy field. Picture: David Geraghty
Some of the calls occurred while he was completing a men’s behaviour program, which started on April 15 and was a condition of his sanction from the AFL.
Despite multiple attempts to help Thomas, who is also known as Tarryn Trindall, following a series of court appearances for driving and intimidation offences last year, the football club axed him in February.
His contract was terminated and the AFL suspended him for 18 matches after finding him guilty of breaching its code of conduct.
Ms Vardy said her client’s mental health was in a “period of deep decline” at the time of his latest offending after losing his job as a professional footballer.
She said he had reached out to the North Melbourne Football Club’s doctor in November last year with mental health struggles and was put on antidepressants.
“He remains medicated,” she said.
She said Thomas has a desire to return to professional football.
Asked by magistrate James Henderson if he had been signed up to next season, she said: “Not at this point.”
“Mr Trindall received a sanction, which required him to complete a men’s behaviour program,” she said, adding how he had now finished that.
Tarryn Thomas in action for the Kangaroos in 2023. Picture: Getty

Tarryn Thomas in action for the Kangaroos in 2023. Picture: Getty
“Whilst it was mandated, it is something that he has done wholeheartedly.
“It’s ultimately a matter for the powers at be whether he is to return to the field or not.”
She said he was a changed man since undergoing the program, which focused on accountability, violence and cultural understandings.
He has “genuine remorse” for his offending and has learnt to be “less reactive”, she told the court.
His mental health is stable, she added, and he now sees a psychiatrist and psychologist, has stable housing and support of family and friends.
She told the court he also goes to church and has a strong connection to his culture.
Ms Vardy pressed His Honour to punish him with a good behaviour bond without conviction, saying he had “very strong prospects of rehabilitation”.
The prosecution made no submissions as to what an appropriate sentence would be.
Mr Henderson told Thomas it was “a serious offence” but took into consideration his early guilty plea, the supports and treatment he has in place, in releasing him on a 12-month undertaking.
Thomas made a promise to the court he would be of good behaviour for the next year, and continue treatments to better himself.
He made no comment as he left the court.

Tosser. Probably an Andrew Tate fan.
 
So do a lot of the other blokes on lists.

Read: Clayton Oliver.

The entire WC midfield of the early 2000’s.

If you’re good enough, they’re overlooked rightly or wrongly.
They were already on their lists though, not in limbo with the world against them. Their drama also predominantly involved behaviours that only really affected them, as opposed to having victims (my condolences to those windscreen wipers though).

Anyway, I was also just talking about his ability to put himself in a tenable position to be drafted. Meaning he's fit, in form at a lower level, and without any new drama following him. Even if he somehow ticks all those boxes I find it hard to see how a club can sell their recruitment of him. Not just to the fans, but to their AFLW team too.
 

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They were already on their lists though, not in limbo with the world against them. Their drama also predominantly involved behaviours that only really affected them, as opposed to having victims (my condolences to those windscreen wipers though).

Anyway, I was also just talking about his ability to put himself in a tenable position to be drafted. Meaning he's fit, in form at a lower level, and without any new drama following him. Even if he somehow ticks all those boxes I find it hard to see how a club can sell their recruitment of him. Not just to the fans, but to their AFLW team too.
Oh, Clayton’s behaviour has very much affected others.

I see your point, however I believe there will be a club that takes a chance.

Probably GC.
 
So do a lot of the other blokes on lists.

Read: Clayton Oliver.

The entire WC midfield of the early 2000’s.

If you’re good enough, they’re overlooked rightly or wrongly.

This isn't the early 2000s and Oliver hasn't had multiple issues with police and women.

Just give the sook up bro, cutting him was the right call and we've been vindicated.
 
This isn't the early 2000s and Oliver hasn't had multiple issues with police and women.

Just give the sook up bro, cutting him was the right call and we've been vindicated.
Give me a spell Captain Spin.

I’ve got zero issue with him being cut, but he’ll get a redemption shot.

Undoubtedly.

And I wouldn’t be so sure re:Oliver.
 
He's a certified shitcampaigner at this point have to just say it, thank god he wasn't a great player for our club across hundreds of games for us if this was the bomb waiting to go off at some point after everything was done for him. It would've been a big of a blemish on the club as the Stephens/Carey saga.
 

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I don’t understand that question?

He needs Laura Kane to tick off his return. Laura knows him better than pretty much anyone in footy, having recruited him for us.

She also knows just how much work we put into him too.

He'd need minimum two solid years in a WAFL club or similar before he can even be considered.
 
Give me a spell Captain Spin.

I’ve got zero issue with him being cut, but he’ll get a redemption shot.

Undoubtedly.

And I wouldn’t be so sure re:Oliver.

Re Oliver ... none reported I've seen and certainly nothing like what happened with Tarryn especially the media side.

I wouldn't rule him out from playing AFL again, but I'd say the chance is 10 per cent Max.

I strongly suspect he's got unfixable trauma combined with some form of intellectual disability or as a result.

I honestly don't think he's capable of changing. Probably only when it's too late in his late 30s
 
Are you under the presumption that I'm a Russel Brand fan?

I'll just state that I am..........so that you can have your 'gotcha/let him cook moment'

Well done Chad :thumbsu:

Wasn't an attack at you. Was agreeing with you and posting an example.
 
I can't see him playing AFL again.

In the past the AFL would allow it and spin the redemption angle. With the growth of AFLW there is no space for people with Thomas' issues. The AFL have an image to protect and there is no way they'll tick it off.

Good riddance.
 
The man that was cleared from all chargers? Val, educate yourself chief. You’re coming across as a purple hair leftist💀
The man that was cleared from all chargers? Val, educate yourself chief. You’re coming across as a purple hair leftist💀
No he wasn't. Still awaiting trial on human trafficking charges. Even without the charges the guy is a certified POS!
 
Someone will take a risk from 2026 onwards.

the only way any club will take a risk on him is if he can play lower league footy while displaying commitment to it and keeping himself out of any sort of trouble behaviour wise.

Given how topical his exit from the AFL was I would suggest he may need a couple of years out of the league doing that.

I have doubts that he will remotely be able to do step 1 in that process let alone back it up for what would probably multiple years.

thats before you look at the administrative hurdles he'd have to climb at the same time.

The chances of him ever being on a AFL list, rookie or main are incredibly remote.
 
He won't play AFL again. The cultural climate surrounding domestic violence against women is (rightfully) too strong for any marketing spin to move around. Other modern 'redemption tales' have concerned offences much less extreme and topical.

I'm so grateful that he's not on our list any more. I see an off-season story like this drop and take solace in the fact that it doesn't have much to do with us at all any more.
 
He won't play AFL again. The cultural climate surrounding domestic violence against women is (rightfully) too strong for any marketing spin to move around. Other modern 'redemption tales' have concerned offences much less extreme and topical.

I'm so grateful that he's not on our list any more. I see an off-season story like this drop and take solace in the fact that it doesn't have much to do with us at all any more.
Maybe it’s just me but after actually losing his job and all, it has actually sunk in what it cost…
But the only things we should see from tarryn are him helping communities and playing lower leagues
 

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Past #26: Tarryn Thomas [Part III] - 18 week suspension confirmed; ineligible to play in '24 season; NMFC has officially sacked Tarryn.

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