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Are you saying you need to act the same, talk the same, about the same topics, with your mates at the pub as you do with your boss in the boardroom? Or with your mother in law during Sunday lunch? Let's not be silly here.I'm not jumping on you here; I do totally get that it's a mind-shift from 'boys being boys' - and most of us realise that this is just young people being daft and a bit thoughtless, but I think this sentiment is what the sanctions are working towards changing.
It isn't just:
'don't behave in a way around people who you have decided (based on stereotypes of gender, age, sexuality) could be offended by your actions'
it should be:
'don't behave in a way that could cause offence'
If you're self-policing around certain sections of society, then it creates an exclusive environment. The unintentional lesson from this sort of scenario is that this behaviour is totally ok just as long as there aren't any women around. You don't want young men deciding that women spoil all their fun and are nags and they can't be themselves around them etc.
I do understand why it looks a bit over the top on the surface (with what information has been given so far) - but that's probably some of the reasoning.