I'm not quite sure what you're trying to say? Are you telling me if a girl decides to make a sex tape with her partner, and that partner then shows it to his mates without her permission, that she should just suck it up because she made the tape? I'm not quite understanding your point. This girl obviously posed for this photo and thought the photo was going to be just for this Broad guy. So how can she be in the wrong? I don't get it.Eh. If she feels seriously violated by naked pictures of her being circulated around, I would suggest she tries keeping her clothes on. Haven't seen the photos and didn't pay much attention to the hubbub at the time, but there seems a sure-fire method of prevention for this problem here. Not condoning what old mate did, by the way.
What she did might have been a little silly, bit what he did was illegal and wrong on so many levels. If the AFL want to get involved(which personally I don't feel they should) then to consider this a 3 week offence is so weak..