Rota, the perfect analogy for this has just occured to me.
You were the guy that somehow landed a girlfriend way hotter than you should have. Things were good for a while, but for some unknown reason you decided you wanted to share your girlfriend with one of your mates.
Needless to say, this went poorly.
She moved on, to better guys, while you begged her to take you back, then after that failed, you threatened to harm her and then you tried to prove how you were better than her by showing off any way possible.
The problem was - or is in this case - is that the hot ex girlfriend stopped caring, and as each new incident took place, she lost all the respect that she had for you in hooking up with you in the first place.
So that is where you are now. The question you face is this: do you grow up and move on, or do you fight a losing cause and have BF lose respect for you as well.
It shouldnt be a tough decision for you.
Now here is my anology on it.
A group of nerds decide they will create a secret organisation on a computer game. lets say the game is world of warcraft and one person lets a character who is not meant to see anything of the organisation, see it. The members are so upset by this that they kick him out and tell him to not return to the secret forest ever again.
How sad is it that you actually kicked out a member becuase they let someone see your top secret website, i would never join EDT again and were teased by fellow friends who play dreamteam that i had become a nerd because of the actions you guys made.
Well you can say im the guy who hooks up with girls and you can be the computer nerd who cries if somebody does something bad.