The worst day of my life

[LuvtheKangas]

Terrible news, mate. Hoping it all works out and Candice makes a full recovery.

 

[amaz199]

Sorry to hear what happened TBL. Best wishes...

 

[Twinkletoes]

I think I saw it on the news and remember thinking how bloody unlucky that is for the poor woman. Now seeing said victim is one of our own just chills me to the bone.

I do recall what I saw on the news the big lebowski and I do remember being horrified.

http://www.9news.com.au/national/20...e-others-injured-after-car-crash-in-melbourne

Fingers, toes and every bloody thing else crossed mate!

(p.s. I'm glad the utterly senseless selfish prick from the other car has been arrested also.)

 

[GoNorth]

I do recall what I saw on the news the big lebowski and I do remember being horrified.

http://www.9news.com.au/national/20...e-others-injured-after-car-crash-in-melbourne

Fingers, toes and every bloody thing else crossed mate!

(p.s. I'm glad the utterly senseless selfish prick from the other car has been arrested also.)

Oh my god, that is horrific. I really hope everything turns out for the best for everyone involved.

 

[hotham]

The big lebowski. We don't know each other but i'll fess up I've been thinking about you and your wife. I hope things are improving.

 

[the big lebowski]

Hi everyone

The update is steady as she goes. I've been riding a massive roller coaster of emotions between despair and hope. All in a single day though nothing is actually changing.

The plan is still to start brining her out of the coma in the coming days. Only then will we know her prognosis.

Your support and the support of friends, family and colleagues has been touching.

That's really the only thing keeping me together. A script of Valium has kept the demons away at night.

Love u all.

 

[Marksup]

Hi everyone

The update is steady as she goes. I've been riding a massive roller coaster of emotions between despair and hope. All in a single day though nothing is actually changing.

The plan is still to start brining her out of the coma in the coming days. Only then will we know her prognosis.

Your support and the support of friends, family and colleagues has been touching.

That's really the only thing keeping me together. A script of Valium has kept the demons away at night.

Love u all.

Stay strong mate. Been there before and I'm absolutely praying for you.

 

[shintemaster]

Hi everyone

The update is steady as she goes. I've been riding a massive roller coaster of emotions between despair and hope. All in a single day though nothing is actually changing.

The plan is still to start brining her out of the coma in the coming days. Only then will we know her prognosis.

Your support and the support of friends, family and colleagues has been touching.

That's really the only thing keeping me together. A script of Valium has kept the demons away at night.

Love u all.

I don't know you mate, but I'm absolutely staggered that your reaction is to get on here and remind others not to take for granted what they have. It may not mean much but I can honestly say I've been thinking about both of you every day since reading this. Keep boxing on.

 

[the big lebowski]

I don't know you mate, but I'm absolutely staggered that your reaction is to get on here and remind others not to take for granted what they have. It may not mean much but I can honestly say I've been thinking about both of you every day since reading this. Keep boxing on.

Not taking candice for granted is something that has helped me deal with this. Every time I kiss her I do it five times. I bought her flowers on the Thursday night just because. And I told her I loved her numerous times that shit of a day. If I hadn't done those things I'd be even more broken than I am.

 

[Hojuman]

Thanks for updating us T.B.L. As everyone says we are all thinking of you guys. Hope the boys shine a little light into your day Saturday.

 

[ansonholt]

Keep keeping us posted mate. Thanks for the updates so far. We're all thinking of you.

 

[Nevbuster]

Best wishes for your wife TBL. I hope your worst day has passed and only good ones remain.

 

[bwinnmforevr]

TBL,

Thinking and praying for you and your partner in these difficult times. Hope everything works out well, that Candice recovers fully and life returns to normal for you.

 

[Twinkletoes]

Not taking candice for granted is something that has helped me deal with this. Every time I kiss her I do it five times. I bought her flowers on the Thursday night just because. And I told her I loved her numerous times that shit of a day. If I hadn't done those things I'd be even more broken than I am.

Well you're amongst family here tbl and I'm sure I'm not the only one here who's had you and Candice on their mind day and night since reading your OP. I've also most certainly taken heed from your reminder to not take our loved ones for granted. Despite tired kids tantrums and disagreements at work and home I've found myself taking a deep breath and not flying off the handle as I'm prone to do (usually due to living on 2 hours sleep per night).

You two will remain in our thoughts mate.

 

[Chief75]

Hi TBL,

I know we don't know each other, but I really hope things take a turn for the better.

I cannot begin to imagine what you are going through right now.

Take care mate.

 

[Skiparoo]

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

 

[Harris 10]

Hoping for some positive news today mate

 

[gokangas]

Keeping a regular eye on this thread for updates. Lets all hope and pray that the outcomes are better than expected. Gut wrenching for TBL and family. Can't begin to think how I would handle something like this. Stay strong mate.

 

[Dirty_11]

Still in our prayers mate. Stay strong and keep telling her you love her.

 

[Supa_Nova]

thoughts and prayers from myself and my family

 

[TennisPlayerAndy]

I'm so sorry to hear this.

The staff at the Alfred are incredible. She's in great hands.

Hoping for a full recovery and life can get back to normal for you and your family.

 

[the big lebowski]

Short update tonight. There has been a dramatic change in her levels of sedation, with the docs dialing them down and by tomorrow they might be 0. It will then take a few days for the meds to clear and some sort of starting point to how she is.

 

[The Butcher]

TBL, I've had recent experience with two people who are dear to me being placed in induced comas and I'll say this mate... stay positive.

These people are good, very good, and the outcomes they can achieve from circumstances that are nothing short of terrifying to us laymen are worth the wait. Wait you will, and wait some more. If she doesn't come around the first or second time they drop the sedation take your ease, it took my dad four goes and a yanked out central line (messy) . Ask the liaison nurse anything and everything you can think of.

Best wishes TBL.

 

[Gibbke]

Best wishes.

 

[the big lebowski]

OMG Candice has just started moving!!!!!