Things that sh*t me the seventeenth

[Over The Post]

checked the cameras and saw 2 kids run onto my property, kick the inflatables and run off

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[Neese]

Oh, I'm good. Alright. I'll rant about it. Haha.

We have a Monday to Monday schedule. She's off with her boyfriend a few hours away. Doesn't want to leave early to pick them up so assumed I'd be good having them until 12pm or so. I'm going to work and told her I'll drop them at her place at 8am. She went off saying "it's sad that my work isn't flexible but I feel even sadder for the boys being alone for a few hours before Christmas". Lol. How about not seeing they're Dad at Christmas? That's a little sad for them.

She said "I don't want to start a fight but you're not sticking to the separation agreement". Umm. I am. It say's Monday to Monday. Nothing about the time. They're fine. Have been ok for a few hours on their own many times.

She's just had complaints from a neighbour about noise sometimes so doesn't want them at her place. If they were staying alone for a bit at mine she wouldn't care. Getting silent treatment now.

She sounds like a manipulative bitch

 

[Over The Post]

The ex at Christmas time. Why be petty??

Because it is a time of strong emotions and memories of happier times, being petty is probably a coping mechanism.

I'm OK this Christmas but last year was fraught. I wasn't petty, but I was caught up in my own misery.

 

[raskolnikov]

Yeah. I'm sure parents who have just lost a child aren't thinking about how much money they're going to save.

 

[rocker_oz33]

I couldn't find my car keys last night. I for God knows what reason put them in my work bag.

A place I never put them ever.

I'm blaming reading this thread

If your looking for Sun glasses.

They on your head ...

 

[phantom13]

Yeah. I'm sure parents who have just lost a child aren't thinking about how much money they're going to save.

I didn’t say they would. I was simply pointing out that financially they shouldn’t need to start a go fund me.

I also (much like Billy ray ) have absolutely no issue with them asking for it.

 

[cats_09]

One Christmas my mum gave me a key hook so I would know where my keys are. It's hanging up but I've never used it.

I’ve got a key rack, decided it was the perfect place to hang all the lanyards from memberships over the years!!!

I've always loved dragons, and one an overseas holiday my brother bought me a dragon shaped key rack - it currently sits was a decorative piece on a cupboard, but that lanyard mention gives me an idea of how I can use it

 

[Gralin]

Also white goods and tv’s even i have seen

TVs make no sense it's over part of the screen

My fridge and washing machine definitely still have the stickers on them though

 

[Elmer_Hauser]

Mosquito bites in summer

I must remember to buy a ton of Aeroguard and splash myself with the stuff (inside and out, I live with a few other house mates and those pests always a way in, the Mozzies not my friends lol)

 

[Over The Post]

Every second news story has a gofund me now.

This is gonna be INCREDIBLY harsh but the ones I truly don’t get are when someone has lost a child and then have a gofund me.

You’ve just lost a dependent. Taking the emotion out of it financially you are better off, why do you need a gofund me at all. I suppose maybe funeral costs but if you’re that adamant on a funeral opposed to donation of organs etc with a wake at a pub or house which will cost you nothing then SURELY family and friends can chip in.

I get (with varying degrees of agreeance) if a family loses a primary breadwinner/illness treatments etc. but I can’t reconcile with needing money when you’ve just saved money.

When my brother lost his son, it actually cost them a bomb (funeral costs, loss of income because they couldn’t work for months etc). I can see how people would need a very quick cash injection in such circumstances.

I didn’t say they would. I was simply pointing out that financially they shouldn’t need to start a go fund me.

I also (much like Billy ray ) have absolutely no issue with them asking for it.

 

[Rotayjay]

Ceiling fans!
As its summer i need them but the constant click click as I try to sleep drives me nut's.

I can't bloody stand that.

 

[Pakenhamsaint]

If your looking for Sun glasses.

They on your head ...

Oh I've done that before with safety glasses at work.

Walked all over the joint only for them to be on the bonce

 

[Big Sauce 21]

When my gf went thru daily radiotherapy after getting cancer, the best thing people did was arrange for meals for us as we (me) was so time poor as we had to drive daily 50mins each way for treatment at GC hospital. I was still working full time. Looking back i have no idea how i did it.
We were lucky we could drop to one income for the year or so we had to. But some people cant.
I dont have an issue with people asking. No obligation on anyone to contribute afterall.

I'm okay with it in most situations but I don't like it when he has almost 200k worth of things He could sell first. (not the house)

Get rid of the ute buy a small cheaper car. get rid of the jet skis, campervan etc.

 

[Rotayjay]

Every second news story has a gofund me now.

This is gonna be INCREDIBLY harsh but the ones I truly don’t get are when someone has lost a child and then have a gofund me.

You’ve just lost a dependent. Taking the emotion out of it financially you are better off, why do you need a gofund me at all. I suppose maybe funeral costs but if you’re that adamant on a funeral opposed to donation of organs etc with a wake at a pub or house which will cost you nothing then SURELY family and friends can chip in.

I get (with varying degrees of agreeance) if a family loses a primary breadwinner/illness treatments etc. but I can’t reconcile with needing money when you’ve just saved money.

In the Adelaide CBD, a few days ago some absolute joker put up posters asking for GoFundMe donations for their small fluffy dog. The story goes that it was attacked by another dog and needs hip surgery, and that will cost about $20,000 to $40,000.

1. Get a grip.
2. Hurry up and put the poor dog out of its misery instead of spending that time typing up a poster and going to the city to put it up.
3. People out there can't afford groceries or are homeless, and you want $40,000 for your ****ing dog?
4. The campaigner will live for another fifteen years at best - is 40 grand really worth it? I've been in that situation before - you have to let go!
5. How do I know this story isn't made up?
6. Is that really what they charge these days for dog trauma surgery? If the poor bugger is that severely injured, keeping it alive is cruel.

 

[MrsEddieBetts]

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I don’t think he’s back-pedalling, just explaining his position

 

[Over The Post]

I've got safe

I don’t think he’s back-pedalling, just explaining his position

Reading the first post, then "have absolutely no issue with them asking for it" does not fill me with confidence that it is genuine. Bit of a history of making excuses - not explanations - when called out for shameful posts over the years.

 

[MrsEddieBetts]

I've got safe

Reading the first post, then "have absolutely no issue with them asking for it" does not fill me with confidence that it is genuine. Bit of a history of making excuses - not explanations - when called out for shameful posts over the years.

Phantom and I don’t always see eye to eye but I don’t agree with that description of him.

I don’t think his post was shameful. Perhaps lacking in understanding.

 

[phantom13]

I've got safe

Reading the first post, then "have absolutely no issue with them asking for it" does not fill me with confidence that it is genuine. Bit of a history of making excuses - not explanations - when called out for shameful posts over the years.

Righto. Who are you sorry?

 

[rocker_oz33]

Phantom and I don’t always see eye to eye but I don’t agree with that description of him.

I don’t think his post was shameful. Perhaps lacking in understanding.

Phantom is fine every one got their POV .
Some posters like to call others out ...
But some get to judgey.

 

[Gralin]

Oh I've done that before with safety glasses at work.

Walked all over the joint only for them to be on the bonce

Using the light on my phone to help look for my phone was a top tier effort

 

[MrsEddieBetts]

Can’t we all just get along

 

[rocker_oz33]

In the Adelaide CBD, a few days ago some absolute joker put up posters asking for GoFundMe donations for their small fluffy dog. The story goes that it was attacked by another dog and needs hip surgery, and that will cost about $20,000 to $40,000.

1. Get a grip.
2. Hurry up and put the poor dog out of its misery instead of spending that time typing up a poster and going to the city to put it up.
3. People out there can't afford groceries or are homeless, and you want $40,000 for your ****ing dog?
4. The campaigner will live for another fifteen years at best - is 40 grand really worth it? I've been in that situation before - you have to let go!
5. How do I know this story isn't made up?
6. Is that really what they charge these days for dog trauma surgery? If the poor bugger is that severely injured, keeping it alive is cruel.

Sad what happened to the doggie.
But asking for 40k .
Is a bit much ...

Something but not the same happened to one of my doggies.
Lost the feelings in his back legs couldn't walk, poos and wees just come out.
Body just gave way , even tho he seemed happy .
Used to crack jokes every day so he would smile ..
End of the story you have to make the hard call.

 

[rocker_oz33]

Can’t we all just get along

.

Even for just for one day .

 

[phantom13]

If anything I usually get accused of over explaining and engaging, first time I’ve ever had the opposite criticism.

As it seems to be unclear to some…

Per Billy Rays point, people are absolutely entitled to start a gofundme, for any reason and per MEBs point there are reasons I hadn’t really considered (loss of income, expensive funeral). My initial thought was more linked to the prevalence now of gofundme account for every single thing that happens in life and as an extension that it would be the absolute last thing I would think to do if I lost one of my children AND that if anything there is less financial burden following a lost child.

It was no shade to anyone who does it, it was no judgement on anyone who does it. It was simply my musings on a modern trend.

 

[rocker_oz33]

Abit disappointed at my local fish n chip shop.

I walk in bloke on the till looks at me then keeps talking to another customer.
Then looks at me again as did customer....nah we'll keep talking .
Ummm.
Decided To break the talk and order.
Sorry you can finish your talk after my order sorry not sorry.
Ordered then he asked my name ...only him there every week.
Then next guy opens up the door ohhhh hi Tony .

The owner brought out my order and wished me and Mrs R a merry Christmas as I did to him.
The owner is great but he can't do everything.