Someone who steps up and changes the game on his own is a star.Spot on.
There were a number of games where in the 4th quarter he said right I'm not willing to lose and just imposed himself on the game and you could see those around him lift. The Carlton and showdown game was a classic example.
A couple of times he even pushed himself too far and got injured, Collingwood and Melbourne games come to mind. But this shows his desire and belief that he can change the course of the game. That is leadership. Not this touchy feely stuff or interview skills.
That's what you want out there setting the example, especially to young players. Thats the level we expect of a leader.
A leader is someone who gets EVERYONE to step up and change the game.
You need both, but it's not necessarily the same guy.