Nope. You're categorically wrong. Fair Work would have my balls in a sling if I said what is alleged to have been said to one of my staff.geez, clutching at straws now. Telling a player that abortion is an alternative to being a parent is not providing medical advice. And the other sentence is laughable. It would very much depend on the relationship and the context of the discussion.
We're not talking about mates here. There's a specific employer/employee relationship. A power imbalance. It's that imbalance that underpins racism, sexism, disability discrimination, even domestic violence. It's that imbalance that causes the need for anti discrimination laws.