Its treated like a sideshow.It's poor, for certain. But anything beyond a word behind the scenes is just going to look like sour grapes.
It's not just song choices being messed up, either. In both finals there were prolonged moments where the commentary just cut out in the broadcast, or the camera just fixed onto a spot completely away from the play. These kinds of mistakes would never be made in the men's matches.
If you want people to start taking the league more serious, then the AFL and the broadcasters have to do the same.