Arts & Humanities The Things That Make You Sad Thread

[peternorth]

All over
Steroid cream, but it seems to come back worse each time she finishes a course. My daughter is afraid of topical steroid withdrawal

She knows it’s long term and has recently been to a naturopath who has started her on a probiotic, zinc, cod liver oil and a diet change but in the mean time it’s just sad seeing her constantly itching and the trauma of having cream rubbed on her 3 times a day

For young youngsters it is so sad to see. I myself endured it, and still do. However, in a mature and experienced body, I and others can manage it. When youre an infant, toddler, child, adults tell you not to scartch without empathy or understanding.

Steroids are for bursts or treatment to subdue, but yeah.

The path is full of dermos, natros, gps etc. Its life unfortunately.

i recommend bleach baths to clear any infection/staph, but please speak to a doctor first.

 

[Cruyff14]

My 18mth grand daughter has eczema and it’s so angry atm - nothing seems to be working

Poor little thing is in so much pain

Get steriod cream, will need a prescription. Advantan. Should work. And/or Bioderma.

 

[raskolnikov]

Thanks everyone

Now I am spiralling that I’m a bad mother for even asking the question

You could do one of those sitcom situations where you madly dash between the two.

 

[MP_]

My 18mth grand daughter has eczema and it’s so angry atm - nothing seems to be working

Poor little thing is in so much pain

As a lifelong sufferer of ectopic dermatitis, I have found that QV flare up oil has worked wonders for me when I can feel a flare up happening. It should be on the shelf at any chemist. Long term use of steroid creams is not good as it can weaken your skin over time. Good luck with it all, for mine excessive heat and sweat can trigger my dermatitis.

 

[MP_]

Off The Couch , are they looking into allergies for your granddaughter? A lot of dermatitis/eczema can be triggered by an allergy. When I was young we found the synthetic tongue in my adidas campus shoes were triggering dermatitis. Best thing my parents did when i was young was to take me to an allergy specialist.

 

[Off The Couch]

Off The Couch , are they looking into allergies for your granddaughter? A lot of dermatitis/eczema can be triggered by an allergy. When I was young we found the synthetic tongue in my adidas campus shoes were triggering dermatitis. Best thing my parents did when i was young was to take me to an allergy specialist.

She is allergic to dairy

Doctors are loathe to acknowledge that eczema may be gut related, whereas everything we read and even the naturopath that we saw, said that it is and that repairing the gut from the initial damage done by dairy is the first thing we need to look at - going to be a long road made all the more difficult by the fathers family who “don’t believe in all that shit” and won’t come to the party with dietary changes

 

[MP_]

She is allergic to dairy

Doctors are loathe to acknowledge that eczema may be gut related, whereas everything we read and even the naturopath that we saw, said that it is and that repairing the gut from the initial damage done by dairy is the first thing we need to look at - going to be a long road made all the more difficult by the fathers family who “don’t believe in all that shit” and won’t come to the party with dietary changes

Yeah gut health is extremely important and underrated imo. I had a lot of antibiotics as a child, one has now been found to cause growth hormone issues which I had and which my son had and we used the same antibiotics as him. I reckon half my issues when young were caused by antibiotics killing all the good gut bacteria.

 

[rocker_oz33]

Mrs R dad had 3 cancer cut out of him the other day 8 hours under the knife .
Won't know till 4 weeks if they got it all.
8 hours must take it out of you.

Back when I was sick it was better to cop it while younger.

Today doctors know more than back then.

Mrs is unsure and thinking the worst.

 

[MrsEddieBetts]

I have a dilemma and I don't know what the right thing to do is.

My son (7 on Sunday) entered a writing competition at his school. They received 180 entries and he is a finalist, one of only 12 across the whole school. The presentation is on Tuesday - the finalists will be reading their stories out to the audience and then a winner will be awarded.

At the exact same time across town, one of my colleagues, with whom I've worked on and off for 17 years, is retiring due to recently being diagnosed with secondary cancer.

Obviously I can't go to both.

I feel like an arseh*le if I miss my son's presentation, especially since I'm already missing his school concert due to work. His dad and brother will be there. I also feel like an arseh*le if I don't go to the retirement - this woman was a big mentor for me early on in my career and has been there for me through a lot.

WWYD please.

Little update to this. I went and saw my colleague earlier and took her flowers and a gift and we cried together. Then I raced over to my son’s writing presentation, watched him read his story out on stage and he got second place in his age group

 

[Chicken Treat]

Hearing an allegation that a family member who is homosexual has been told by a sister in law that they cannot see her kids because in her mind gays are pedophiles and child abusers.

Said lady is also a staunch antivaxxer and very pro homeschooling because schools will brainwash her kids with MSM propaganda so make of that what you will.

 

[raskolnikov]

Hearing an allegation that a family member who is homosexual has been told by a sister in law that they cannot see her kids because in her mind gays are pedophiles and child abusers.

Said lady is also a staunch antivaxxer and very pro homeschooling because schools will brainwash her kids with MSM propaganda so make of that what you will.

Shit person all round.

 

[Gralin]

Yeah that's the full package anti vax homeschooling anti LGBTQI

 

[raskolnikov]

Her son

 

[MrsEddieBetts]

Hearing an allegation that a family member who is homosexual has been told by a sister in law that they cannot see her kids because in her mind gays are pedophiles and child abusers.

Said lady is also a staunch antivaxxer and very pro homeschooling because schools will brainwash her kids with MSM propaganda so make of that what you will.

She sounds like a proper campaigner

 

[Cruyff14]

My pa has been in aged care since November last year, he's 99. He's been OK, but has slowly started deterioriating. My mum only told me recently he only really gets out of bed to go to the toilet and shower (my mum and aunty used to take him out to lunch when they would visit).

My mum goes frequently (2 mins from her house), and she says his moods have changed from not being too good, a bit chatty, grumpy, confused or OK. She said today he wasn't too good and she seems to think he won't last the week.

Me, mum, my aunty, uncle and one of my cousins are going tomorrow. It will likely be a goodbye. He's had a great knock, but it's still sad.

 

[Billy ray]

Hearing an allegation that a family member who is homosexual has been told by a sister in law that they cannot see her kids because in her mind gays are pedophiles and child abusers.

Said lady is also a staunch antivaxxer and very pro homeschooling because schools will brainwash her kids with MSM propaganda so make of that what you will.

FMD. This is like a big footy post from the middle ages.

What a shitcampaigner

 

[Gough]

My pa has been in aged care since November last year, he's 99. He's been OK, but has slowly started deterioriating. My mum only told me recently he only really gets out of bed to go to the toilet and shower (my mum and aunty used to take him out to lunch when they would visit).

My mum goes frequently (2 mins from her house), and she says his moods have changed from not being too good, a bit chatty, grumpy, confused or OK. She said today he wasn't too good and she seems to think he won't last the week.

Me, mum, my aunty, uncle and one of my cousins are going tomorrow. It will likely be a goodbye. He's had a great knock, but it's still sad.

Hugs mate, what a rotten time for you all.