karix
Yarrr!
If Beams just wants to be close to his dying dad why did he stipulate that he would never go to the Gold Coast even though that is where his dad lives?
Because his father expressed and explicit desire to see his son's play together. And before you ask, 'why not bring Claye to Collingwood and move his dad to Melbourne as well'... it's because his father's support network (which is so important when battling cancer) is in Brisbane.
But by all means ignore a dying man's wish so your club can get overs on a trade. Par for the course for Collingwood and Ed I spose.
Why is he in America living it up with Shaw as we write? Shouldn't he be spending quality time with his dying dad?
Because quality time with your father doesn't mean spending every waking minute with him. Because taking a break from the fish bowl and letting off some steam is good for your mental health and general well being. It recharges the batteries and means when you return the pressures of 'normal' life you've got more resilience to engage with those around you, to support them and enjoy your time with them.
Quality time is about those little moments that happen as part of every day life, they can't be manufacture or forced, or timed to a schedule. You just have to be near the ones you love so that those opportunities can happen. God forbid his father takes a sudden turn for the worse and Dayne can't be with his dad to support him when he needs him most. All because Collingwood are trying to extort a young player out of Brisbane at the expensive of the Beams' family.
Shame. Shame. Shame.