Spooner I might be wired differently to you - but I find winning fun - I don't know too many people that are happy having a kick with their mates regardless of the result. That said the environment UQ have created over the years with the different teams is a very unique situation.
Player movement as stated by Billy is swings and roundabouts - Flowers and templar have almost had as many clubs between them as KP (side note has it resulted in either of them playing in a winning gf?) point being clubs don't mind when players come to them from other clubs but think its underhanded when they leave.
Basically every club in QLD has gone through ups and downs in the last 10 years - strap yourself in because its going to keep happening! look at the ups and downs the likes of Kedron, Wynnum, Robina, Beenleigh, Logan, Redcliffe, Caloundra, Maroochy, Cooly & Nambour to name a few have experienced.
Its not limited to footy at this level - look at the AFL for example - collingwood supporters hail treloar and Aish in one breathe yet are baying for Nathan Freeman's blood because he dare leave them.
None of this makes it right or wrong - but fighting and complaining about the inevitable is a waste of time and energy.
No one ever complained about people leaving as that would be stupid of us to do so as people leave/move interstate/go up and so on. However, 8 players leaving one club to go an play with another team in the same comp is a completely different kettle of fish.