- Jul 5, 2012
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- Kidding, right?
If anyone is feeling seriously depressed by the loss they should of course seek professional help without delay. I am serious.Oh well mate there's an equally disappointing summer of cricket to watch , even though it's a second rate sport.
I have my NFL and NBA Teams who can let me down in the mean time
but it's all part of the sports journey in all seriousness , when we do win the flag it will all be a culmination of a lot as a fan including last week.
I'll sook whinge and feel s**t about it with the best of them, but flip side life goes on, wife and kids happy healthy, sun is shining , sure I need three jobs to fuel the car or buy a grape and the world is full of nuts, but life is still good
But for those of us who are more than a bit bummed out, but not utterly devastated (like me), well this book “The Antidote” by Oliver Burkeman that I’m reading right now could not have come along at a better time. I only started it the other night, so I won’t say too much about the overall theme of the book, but his early chapter on the Stoic philosophers of ancient Greece and Rome, and the foul-mouthed American psychologist Albert Ellis, have consoled me greatly.
Takeaway message: the only effective way to deal with despair is not to think positively, or even to dwell on how bad things are, but to realistically dwell on how much hideously worse life could be.
Team just got smashed in a grand final? That’s bad, real bad.
But getting some hideous tropical flesh-eating disease that progressively eats away half your face? That’s much worse.
The Antidote
A witty, fascinating, and counterintuitive read that turns decades of self-help advice on its head and forces us to rethink completely ou...
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