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Your question makes little sense to me.
I have little reason to doubt the person who said it based on how I know the person.
I'm just establishing here that you actually believe that Murph was upset and sulking about the Cripps win because as you say you have trust in the person who told you and the opinions since are actually expressing your disappointment in what you believe happened.
The perspective I am looking for is whether the person has just said Murph looked upset but can't be sure why, that we don't know what he was referring to when he said he can't vent, and wonderiong whether the person followed Murphy closely in the aftermath to ensure Murph made no contact with Cripps' parents.
I am allowing for the possibility that this was not at all what it appeared to be to your friend ... benefit of the doubt and all that, and then wondering if we have to go into a whole thing about expectations of him as captain and so forth, because these things have a habit of being accepted as truth and presented as such a couple of years down the track.
Like we have heaps of rumours here but most aren't potentially damaging or defaming to a key member of the club. Reporting it is fine, but when the discussion starts to evolve to a point where we are actually believing it, I personally find it a little distasteful.
I'd just like it to be a little less circumstantial I guess.