Id like to know the context. If someone goes out of their way to say it to the player..its just rude. If asked then I think its fair to be honest. There are some minority groups that scream for equality yet dislike negativity. There will always be some people that do not like your product. Imagine for decade the type of comments some of the AFL players would have received in Qld etc. Not everyone will sit down and watch VFL or the U19 champs either.
With the priest... was his bugbear strictly football related. One has to admit that the W comp has a broader range of relationships on display than a strict catholic may like.